Are You Attracting the Career of Your Nightmares?
Article by: Nikisha Thompson
June 13, 2009
How much time do you spend everyday thinking about what you don’t have, and don’t want? According to the Law of attraction, we attract what we focus on whether it be positive or negative (read more about the Law of Attraction here). One of the reasons why the Law of Attraction doesn’t work for everyone is because we cannot stop dwelling on the things we want to change. We have fooled ourselves into believing that we are optimistic because we know what we don’t want, and wish for what we do. To simultaneously think about the negative present and positive future is to cancel out any hope of change. You want the good ONLY, and in order for the Law to work, you cannot entertain any thoughts of lack, need, dislike, or doubt.
For these skeptical about whether or not the Law of Attraction really works, here’s something to think about: How many highly successful people do you know who are constantly doubtful and unhappy? Probably not many. With genuine contentment and positive thoughts comes confidence and productivity. People prefer to be around you; your goals become clearer, and your focus is on attaining not lacking. Even without a firm belief in the Law of Attraction, you have to admit that the perks of being positive are worth giving it a try. So back to our thoughts…..
If you think about how much you need a new job, then guess what? You will attract need into your life and be forever needy. To be completely ready to receive what you ask for you must behave as if you have what you need. Better yet, believe it with all of your might and allow your actions to follow you. Rather than focusing on the need for the job, focus on having the job, loving the job, and making the most of the job.
During this process it is important to remember that you cannot only imagine what your future will be like, you must actually be happy in the moment. The more you embrace feelings of dissatisfaction, the more dissatisfaction you will attract. The Law of Attraction requires that you have faith that the higher power (Universe or God depending on your belief) will deliver all of your needs and desires. If you cannot be happy about anything else, be happy about knowing that eventually you will be exactly where you need to be in life. Any other doubtful thoughts and you WILL prolong your abundance. It’s a paradox. Our situations make us unhappy and cause us to dwell on the negative. Dwelling then attracts more unhappiness into our lives. Break the cycle by taking a step out into blind faith and declaring your happiness.
Speak your new life into existence. If you are around anyone who is experiencing difficulties, limit your time spent until their outlook changes. The slightest negative thought can drag you back into your cycle. Instead, focus on happiness and prosperity for them and hopefully their attitudes will change. A common method used by followers of the Law is to place reminders of what you are manifesting around you. If it is the job of your dreams, post visual reminders of your new job in places you will encounter throughout the day. This will help keep your thoughts on track.